Oh… A 38-year-old single man was dragged into a mental hospital by his mother. But after listening to the doctor’s diagnosis, his mother became pale.
The 38-year-old son, who is still unmarried, is forced by his mother to see a psychiatrist every year. But the latest doctor diagnosed him directly and said that the one who is sick is his mother.
The story of a 38-year-old man surnamed Wong from Xinxiang, Henan Province. China has become a hot topic on Chinese social media. After he revealed that his mother forced him to go to a psychiatric hospital for four consecutive years at the beginning of every year. This was after his mother noticed that her son had never brought his girlfriend home for a visit during the Chinese New Year. Leading her to believe that his son had a “problem” or “something wrong with his head”.
The above reasons are the motivation that has led his mother to force Wong to see a doctor every year since 2020. On February 4. The 38-year-old single man was still taken by his mother to a psychiatric hospital in Hanam Province. However, this time, doctors diagnosed that Wong was not sick, but his mother was the one who had a problem. As she had developed a mental disorder from “forcing her son to marry”.
Mr Wong also said that he has studied and worked in Beijing for more than 10 years. He used to be an athlete and is now a tennis coach. Because of his busy work, he has not met anyone suitable. At the same time, his mother is so disappointed that she can’t sleep because her son is not married. Even though Mr Wong explained that he does not have enough money to pay a deposit to buy a house in Beijing. It is difficult to get married and have a stable life. Who would marry someone like him?
“I shouldn’t be labelled as single. I’m just very busy and haven’t met the right person yet. My mother can’t sleep because I’m not married, so I feel quite bad.” Wong admitted admitting that he went to the hospital to put his mother at ease. His family lives in the countryside. And adults here believe that being 30 without marriage is considered old and mentally ill. Leading to him being known as the “old bachelor”.
Since the story was published, the เล่นบาคาร่า UFABET เว็บตรง ค่าคอมสูง video has been viewed more than 4 billion times, sparking debate about the pressure to marry early in a country with a billion people, and asking. “Why are we sinners in society if we don’t get married?”
During the Spring Festival, when young people living in big cities return home, intergenerational conflicts over marriage intensify. While older generations in China want their children to get married and have children early, younger generations often marry later or do not believe in marriage for a variety of reasons, including daily pressures and a lack of social support. In addition, the practice of “bride price” or dowry in many rural areas is still practiced. In which the groom’s family must pay a certain amount of money to the bride’s family in order to obtain permission to marry.
Many netizens think that the condition that Mr. Wong should be examined for is not really a mental or ideological problem. But a “pitiable disease” because he is busy working and has no money to pay a down payment for a house. This is the main reason. In addition, many young people also commented that marriage is a private matter for children, and parents cannot force it.